Lunch Box Wisdom 18 Oct 2016...

Lunch Box Wisdom 18 Oct 2016...

"Caring about what people think of you is useless.  Most people don't even know what they think of themselves. " ~WordPorn

Oh, I am so bad at this!  Hence the note from my Wendy. She knows that I care way to much.  I care about what they are thinking, how they are feeling, if they had enough to eat, are they alone... I ache to make everyone feel all better all the time. Ugh... It is so hard being a nice guy some times.  The other part that sucks is when you are done being nice and you just wanna be left alone.  Then people are all, "What's wrong with him? Why is so quite to day."  Can you see my struggle here?  

Anyway, enough of my issues.  Lets talk about you, my favorite subject!

Honestly, when I start to worry about what others think of me, I try to remember that it's none of my business.  Put that into context for yourself.  If you are dancing in the rain, getting soaking wet,  and loving every second... it does not matter what Ralph, George or Henry think.  Ralph may be all, "My Dear, you shall surely catch your death of cold." and George, " Get it girl!  Shake that thang!"  While Henry, ever the optimist and art lover, might think, "The relation of your wet dress to the wet leaves of a tree brings me to tears."  They all have different opinions and not one of them really matters... just do what you feel is best. Some will cheer and some will boo and that's OK.  Did you enjoy the dance?  Did you laugh and have fun? Did you find something in you feeling lighter or more free?  That's what matters.  And your shoes... you have to have great shoes... just kidding ;-)

I try to remember that everyone is trying to figure out their own life, and when they "should" all over you its because they don't have it all figured out either. So do what you love and don't worry about what someone else thinks.  Ask your self what you think and what you feel.  That matters way more. 

Try it.  Look inside instead of outside for validation today. I believe in you, so believe in yourself.

~ Lost sends...

"Normal is and illusion.  What is normal to the spider is choas to the fly." ~ Morticia Addams